I can ONLY reciprocate around the FIRST THREE DAYS OF THE MONTH. The next day I can chat is Tuesday, December 3rd. I'm sorry, but I didn't have the extra money to talk this November. Please forgive me. I am NOT ignoring anybody. Please be aware of this fact when trying to contact me. I can be seen on the site, but I cannot respond to you. Please don't leave this site until you've had the opportunity to speak with me. One conversation is all we need to change our lives forever. Just have a little patience. I like to talk, and I am always interested in meeting new people. I do not care about the new compatibility percentages or the type of communication you are looking for. I prefer to follow my heart, because it speaks to me. I have always followed my intuition and feelings, and they have never led me astray.
Do you want to meet in person? All I want to do is love someone and to be loved in return. I am a serious man looking for a serious relationship, but I have not found a lady yet that is as serious about love as I am and that's the real game changer right there. I had a pretty good childhood. I grew up in a good, Christian home with loving parents. We used to pack up the camper trailer and go camping in Spring and Fall. My teenage years were probably the worst part of my life. I got involved with the wrong crowd at school and it changed me. I became lazy and no longer cared about my education among other things. All I wanted to do was have fun. My father was very strict and demanding during this time and it severed any real chance of a relationship with him. Which still holds true today. As I matured, I started to regret my life choices in my early 30's and my eyes were opened to the real world. I wish now I could take it all back and do things very differently. College didn't last long for me after I had struggled so much in high school. I was tired of school in general. I no longer have any friends because they considered me a burden of their lives. They would just stop having anything to do with me. It's not that I don't want any friends. I get along with people and can make friends quite easily. I just fear a repeat of what my "friends" did to me. To my great misfortune, I ended up being diagnosed with a rare and very deadly disease known as Addison's Disease. This disease made the two other two I had, Diabetes and Thyroid Disease, all that more serious. But what Addison's does is stops your body from producing adrenaline; the very thing that gives a person energy. Without adrenaline, my heart will stop beating and keep my immune system from working. Adrenaline does a lot more than allow you to workout longer or get a high from riding roller coasters. without adrenaline I become very sluggish, tired, lifeless and like I have no energy at all. Because of Addison's I end up in the hospital at least once a year. I would consider myself lucky if I could to stay out of the hospital. It was because I was well-established in my city that I couldn't just move away on a whim. I ended up losing all of my friends because of these illnesses. So now, you have some incite into my life and daily routine. In 2005, my mother got me put on Disability and Social Security. This means the government determines your worth according to the state you live in and sends you a low-income monthly check to pay for your monthly expenses. Which is never enough. This is why I am only able to chat on the 3rd of the month. The worst part of Disability is, I can't work or have a job because Disability states you are physically unable to work which I'm not. My problem with this program is if I want to try and make money for myself, I can lose my medical insurance, my government-issued check and any benefits I have. I got married at the age of 30 in July 2007 to a woman that became the only person in my life. It wasn't an ideal marriage but we made it work the best we could for three and a half years until her sudden change. I did love her and her son from another relationship even though her son's biological father was the very man she cheated on me with. She had a lot of problems which I found out later in the marriage. She had some mental issues and a lot of self esteem problems that caused disagreements from time to time. When she started to change, I fought tooth and nail to keep her because I believe marriage is sacred. I took my wedding vows seriously. Divorce was never a consideration for me especially after seeing what it did to my parents. I did not want to become another statistic! When she changed, my world came crashing down in a mere instant and I lost everything I held dear and cherished. We separated in November 2011 and divorced in February 2012. But this is a sad and tragic story for another time. And so, this is where I will begin my profile. I hope that being completely honest an truthful about my past has not scared you away yet. There is so much more to me now. To start with I will state my intentions as for why I am here on this site. I came here to find the love of my life. I gave up a long time ago on ever finding love with American girls. They are nothing like me. All they care about are appearances, money and how good you make them look. I have no interest in people like that. Not long after I discovered online dating and all the Slavic and European dating sites. Unfortunately, this wasn't the first site I checked out, but because of these sites it fueled a passion in my soul that has not gone out even to this day. I liked the idea of having to get to know a person first rather than basing things on looks or money. Personally, I find people like that beneath me. Then, I discovered online dating. It gave me a way for people to get to know me without scrutiny or judgment. Then, I discovered dating abroad and found the Slavic culture which I fell in love with. These were women that had the same personality and character traits I was looking for! Hey! How's it going? My name is Jeremy Sylvester. I live in Florence, Alabama in the United States. I consider myself a unique individual that has something for everyone and you shouldn't wait to get to know me better. I am not shy and can be quite entertaining if the moment calls for it. I am known as a Sigma Male which is according to Psychology is the rarest male personality type. It is said that I am part of 0.01% of all males in the world. They are also the most desired by the women of the world. This actually makes a lot of sense if you have ever had the opportunity to speak with me. I am confident in my ability to win your heart. I know you will like me. I am a down-to-earth, relaxed and care-free gentleman who sees beauty in all things, including people. Everyone is beautiful in some way through my eyes. I try to see the world in bright colors and how we can better it while we are here. I am also a total romantic. I like all things that display a sense of romance. I am kind, gentle, polite, tender, warm, refreshing, welcoming, funny, loving, caring, affectionate, open-minded, optimistic, understanding, communicative, compassionate, empathetic, sincere, honest, truthful, thoughtful, reliable, trustworthy, respectful, patient, forgiving, faithful, loyal, selfless, protective, brave, courageous, passionate and spontaneous. I like to play video games. I am a Gamer and I have an expensive gaming computer that is decked out in rainbow colors. Just ask if you want to see it. I listen to music. I literally spend all day listening to music. I have very eclectic tastes. Look my name up on YouTube and you can listen to my playlists. I don't watch television anymore, but I do watch movies. I like Science Fiction, Action and RomComs the most, but I can watch anything. I like to draw I can draw anything I see. It is a natural talent that I've had since I was five years old. I like going to the parks in my city just to be outdoors and in nature. I also enjoy watching the children play on the playgrounds. I like to exercise and workout. I used to workout all the time back in high school. I am just now starting back to the gym after a twenty-five year hiatus. I need a Fitness Trainer if you would like to help me. I like to go on trips and travel. One of greatest passions is to travel the world exploring new cultures and ways of life with my loved one in hand. I have seen so little of my country and never been abroad. I'm not afraid to show my feelings and emotions. To show emotion only makes you more human. I'm a believer in love at first sight. I believe the eyes are windows to the soul. I believe that true beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I am also a believer that love can happen at any age and any where. You just have to look for it. I am a peaceful man with a mild temperament. It takes a lot to get me angry. I will never hurt you physically, mentally or verbally. I deplore violence of any kind especially to that of a human or animal. I absolutely love animals and children. I will not tolerate the harm or abuse to either. I like all animals. I have three cats. They are my babies. And yes, I do sweettalk them. I'm looking for a real and serious relationship with someone that will eventually lead to marriage. I am not picky about who that could be. I'll accept you wholely; the good and the not-so-good. I will not play games with you or waste your time if I see its not working out. I am a man of my word and I try very hard to keep my promises. I'm a man of action rather than words and I look for the same mentality in a woman. I do not drink, smoke or do recreational drugs. I have never been interested in such things. I care very much for your comfort and well-being when it comes to breaking the ice. I know it can be hard sometimes. You don't know what to say or how to react, so I may heavily flirt with you or use humor to get you more comfortable with me. I do have a pretty good sense of humor, but it's at its best in person. I do have experience in making love and I know several different ways of pleasing a woman. That does not mean I am looking for sex or that sex is the first thing on my mind when we meet. I like public displays of affection and I am not opposed to kissing, hugging, holding hands, cuddling, touching, caressing or making love. Anything goes on a first date with me unless you object. I promise I will respect your wishes and be a perfect gentleman. I do things like open the door for you, seat you at the table, stand when you need to go to the powder room or give you my coat if you are cold. If you would like to go on a date with me, we can, although I don't know how that would work online. I expect a real meeting if we are to become more than friends. It is my only stipulation. I don't want a virtual romance. I've tried them. They never last. All it takes is one meeting and you're welcome to stay as long as you want. This is where I want you to make a decision. I don't like making demands, but this could be the moment you have been looking for and I need you to make a decision. Do you want to be with me or not? Yes or no? It's time to be an adult and leave your comfort zone. This will be the only opportunity I will give you or you'll be wrote off as "not ready." If you want to meet me, I am completely open to meetings, but I must insist that you make your plans to come to visit me in my city. Afterwards, we can meet anywhere. First impressions are very important to me. I want our first meeting to be a memorable one. I am open to suggestions for things to do or things you like doing. I was taught to love unconditionally and therefore I will not judge you based on your appearance, your age, your height, your weight, your financial status, the language you speak, where you live or your sexual experience. However, I must insist that only women under the age of 45 contact me, unless you would like to be friends because i don't want to leave anybody alone.
My final word to you is very important. I need you to comprehend and understand this. I NEED to be in a stable, working relationship before my mother dies! She is getting older, becoming more feeble and is not in the best of health. This means you and I need to physically be together before this happens. THIS IS DETRIMENTAL FOR MY SURVIVAL! I know I am not a perfect person, but do I sound like the perfect person for you? I can't always reciprocate, but I try my best with what I have. I thoroughly enjoy reading your letters and seeing the photos you send to me. It makes me feel like I'm a part of your everyday life. You can talk to me about anything. I will not judge you. I am a very attentive listener, I communicate well and I'm great at keeping secrets. You can trust me completely. 😃 😃 😃

My desire is to meet you in person, become close, fall in love and get married. I thoroughly enjoy meeting new people and making new friends. I want to be friends with everybody! Just because I don't have anymore friends, doesn't mean I can't make new ones. Since my divorce, I just haven't tried. I have kept to my self and become somewhat of a homebody. My mother calls me a "hermit that stays in his cave" and she's probably right. I have everything I need in my room but food, drink and a toilet. At this point in my life, I am purely focused on finding love. I am not shy about meeting new people. Actually, I am right the opposite. I get excited and eager to meet someone new that will further enrich my life. I am a social butterfly that spreads his wings when I begin to warm up to and become comfortable with you. When I chat, I like to use my webcam and talk to you in video chat, this is only an option of course. I feel like it can bring us closer and let us have a more intimate acquaintance. Everyone that I talk to has a special place in my heart. I know it's hard to maintain contact and develop a serious relationship with only twelve days to talk out of the whole year. Sounds hopeless doesn't it? I apologize. I'm doing the best I can with what I have to work with. That is why we need to meet as soon as possible. A meeting is A MUST! So, my primary goal is to have a short correspondence with you because I hate needlessly giving all of my money to these sites and nothing happen. We must have a face-to-face/hand-in-hand meeting where a gentleman can show you what it's like to be treated like a lady and loved like nothing else matters but you. I want to officially leave this site forever with you. Now, let's talk about you. This is what God's perfect creation looks like to me. Read this carefully so you don't miss anything. I mentioned the main points in the description above, so this will be how I visualize her in my thoughts. I look for kind eyes, a kind smile and an even kinder soul. She brings light and vivid colors into my life. She can light up my heart with her smile. She can change the atmosphere in a room just by walking into it. Her home is her treasured place. When our eyes connect, she makes me faint of heart. When she touches me, she arouses my love and passion for her and I never want to let her go. When she sits and brushes her hair, I can't help but want to kiss her all over. When she goes to bathe, I can't help but want to join her and wash her. When we make love, it is truly Heaven on Earth. When in public, all I want to do is hold her hand. She is God's perfect creation for me. She is someone that I simply can't live without. She is my best friend, my life partner, my confidante, my support, my caretaker, and my lover. She is someone who has all of my best characteristics and then some. She does not have to be perfect according to the world's standards. She stays fit by exercising and working out frequently. She will have a fit and muscular form.
Now let's talk about what isn't you. I prefer natural beauty over "fake" or "enhanced" beauty. Beauty fades with age. That's just a fact of life that you will have to accept. Your imperfections are what make you perfect. I have noticed a lot of women on social media have this problem or they seem to, so I will address it. I mean no disrespect. She is neither vain or obsessed with how she looks or dresses. I'm not looking for a Barbie doll. She can have a few tattoos, but her beautiful body is not to be covered in them. The same goes for piercings. Ears, belly button and maybe a nose stud would be fine. I'm not looking for a LGBTQ+ or an open relationship. I am a Christian man made for one woman. Yes, I am done critiquing you! If you have any questions, please ask.
I'd like to meet someone who has similar interests and hobbies. I feel like this will help to keep the love alive in our relationship or marriage. They must like video games or at least keep an open mind and try them out. I'm sure you will come to enjoy them. Of course, she must like to travel, go camping and go abroad. Someone who likes to cook and can teach me how not to burn the kitchen down and make us have to move. Someone who likes the great outdoors and being one with nature, but can also be comfortable at home reading a good book, watching a movie, playing a game, watching the sunrise or sunset, or just spending quality time together. The possibilities are endless! Here's to us! I literally can't wait to meet you. 😃 😃 😃